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"Looking for what is there, instead of looking to put something in."

Such a powerful and important essay, Rik. I will be a better parent, and person, as a result of reading this.

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...i couldn't like this more if i tried doog...the world would be so much radder if we helped kids learn and explore via their passions instead of teachers/parents/therapist wants...i could have become a no good lazy do nothing so much sooner if my parents would have only listened (jk kind of)...what an awesome therapist and parent to be so open to their child...

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Mar 9Author

Right?! Isn't the norm though…

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I've never heard this story Rik and am so grateful that you shared it. It's such a exemplary illustration of your entire point about what it really means to help, teach, or coach another person. The best stories make the point in a simple profound way and this one is going on my personal story list for sharing with others. Thank you!

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Mar 9Author

Hearing, reading, or retelling this story always brings a tear to my eye. We need more of these types.

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Yes, I agree. I hope you'll share any others you run across.

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