8 Comments
Apr 5, 2023·edited Apr 5, 2023Liked by Rik

Big fan of the finished product, Rik. It flows smoothly from point to point. Like how silence (not rescuing others) can empower people (since they need to find the solution themselves they gain confidence). Excellent. Should be required reading for any teacher or coach out there.

Expand full comment

“Your genuine curiosity is the navigation here. The rest is practice.” Such a good line. I’ve also found that taking a genuine interest in someone through powerful questions is one of the fastest ways to form a bond and seed a friendship. Great stuff here Rik!

Expand full comment

Questions that "affirm autonomy." I LOVE that. Such a evocative description and tangible benefit of asking good questions. Ok, I'm going to practice right here, because I've actually had this question lurking in my mind as I read your articles. "Where is it that you want to take me if I keep reading your work over time? How will I benefit? And how can I help you in return?"

Expand full comment