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Great reminder on how to formulate a start up for a conversation. Instead of “how are you” or “how was your day” I ask “what was a joyful part of your day?” Or “are there things i can help you with today?” I think of the outcome first in the framing of the question but I hadn’t thought about zoom meetings and professional scenarios

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Now I am.curious! Which of those questions was yours? Each started off a range of thinking.

I like where you are taking this discussion - for a different reason: our ability to phrase and frame questions will significantly change what AI/GPT returns to us.

And that is what happens ... the question is recveived in the eyes/brain/mindset of the receiver ... and sparks their own interest in the topic. You were the firestarter.

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...appreciate the inspiration to work on deeper inquisitions in both formal and informal settings...we really can't have enough consciousness...thank you...

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I'm so curious what question you asked and how you intended it to be asked! Questions are really hard to ask. I realized this when I was a journalist, having to come up with ~10 questions for each interview I do (and I do them multiple times a day). Not that I have the best ones, but I figured out a bit on how to get them to say the answers I was looking for. Often, sound-bitey quotes that make for interesting articles. This, of course, is completely different from open-ended questions that could happen in a café. That itself sounds like the perfect arena for a question-master like you :)

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Hahaaa... Oh Rik. Would love to know how you'd formulate the question differently after this experience. And I apologize if I misrepresented your question :p

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Ha ha, yes, my question is now, "What question did you ask?" And how would you refine it? Having a tangible example would help me put the excellent musings of this article in context. Tim Denning who is an extremely successful writer on Medium recently posted a note that said if you want to engage readers you should spend 70% of your time on the headline. Sounds similar to what you are saying about questions at the top of a conversation.

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