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…packing it in here today Rik…lots of good advice but as a accidental occasional musician the experiment often hit me as an outlier…finding wrong notes can be just as important as playing the right ones…and feedback might be the only way to know which is which…

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it’s funny how incessant the fear response is such that I need to hear this message over and over and over again to stay even marginally ahead of it. So thanks for bringing the subject to your newsletter today. someone I’ve been coaching for a while with public speaking expressed their success in this respect in such a beautiful way. They recently sent a note to me saying “now I am ready to fail at a moment’s notice.” I love that way of looking at the useful process of failure and I’m now aspiring to that goal, worded in my mind in just that way

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