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John Nicholas's avatar

Great reflection Rik. Love the “what got me here, won’t get me there” message and scaffolding analogy. Did you just wipe out an entire book industry ;)?

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Rik's avatar

Thanks John hahaha. Imagine if I'd have that kind of influence. Still, some of the books were massive helps, just not indefinitely :)

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Leo Hepis's avatar

A couple of decades ago I noticed something similar as Rik noticed: that the constant pursue of growth implies a latent belief that we're not where we should be. I do believe in seeking growth, but I also believe in cutting ourselves some slack for a while and resolving that we are good enough. In fact, we're already perfect for what the current situation calls for.

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Gautham's avatar

Love this outlook, I could use some of this. The note is very easy to read. Great job Rik!

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Rik's avatar

Haha, thank you Gautham :)

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Jon Vasquez's avatar

I think it’s smart to notice the moment when progress transforms from wind in your sails to an arduous grind.

That’s usually a sign that it’s time to move in a new direction.

Leaving survival mode is a big and often overlooked graduation. I like how you framed it :)

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Rik's avatar

Thanks Jon :) Funny that the 'grind' is even difficult to notice. Btw, I like the word 'graduation' in this context.

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