This reminds me of the recent research showing that talking about your goals decreases the chance of reaching them because it deceives the mind into the perception that the goal has already happened. Telling someone they have potential may be the kindest form of disempowerment there is.
Great post Rik! This really resonates with me. Also reminds me of how we're supposed to complement our kids on the effort and not the fixed skills
Yes! Tough in practice though, no?
This reminds me of the recent research showing that talking about your goals decreases the chance of reaching them because it deceives the mind into the perception that the goal has already happened. Telling someone they have potential may be the kindest form of disempowerment there is.
I agree with this. I stopped sharing my grander plans with anyone until I have some momentum.