This is so true. I read a poem recently that I loved, one of the lines is: "I will not negotiate by withholding" –– I feel like that is a similar vein as unspoken expectations.
This essay is laden with truisms, Rik. And wonderful metaphors to make the point: Unspoken expectations can slowly push relationships apart without most people noticing. Like countless tiny raindrops that, over time, carve a solid mountain into a deep canyon.
This is so true. I read a poem recently that I loved, one of the lines is: "I will not negotiate by withholding" –– I feel like that is a similar vein as unspoken expectations.
Love that line. It seems like so often we do though, out of fear or 'ease' (in the short term).
This essay is laden with truisms, Rik. And wonderful metaphors to make the point: Unspoken expectations can slowly push relationships apart without most people noticing. Like countless tiny raindrops that, over time, carve a solid mountain into a deep canyon.
Ha, glad you liked that one. I actually surprised myself coming up with that one ;)
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Here are a few questions to get you started:
- How often should we stay in touch, and what's the best way—texts, Zoom calls, carrier pigeons?
- Are you glued to your phone, or is a delayed response your style?
- What's your typical day like? Are there times when you're off the grid?